Friday, February 13, 2009

TO all the MOTheRS of THe WORLd . . . How DO You DO it?

It is friday and I am still asking myself . . . how do mothers do it. Two days ago I got a call from my dad saying my brothers babysitter was overwhelmed, pummeled, and pushed to her limits. I wasn't doing anything more important than helping my brother out so I offered to step in for the rest of the day. I then receive a phone call from my sister, who TOTALLY is on board to help out anytime, and we decided to go big! We offered to watch the kids (3) over night and tag team it! (my brother and his wife are in hawaii)
I arrived on the scene first. Their oldest son got home from school and asked to go play at a friends and I said "SURE!" (being the cool aunt that I am) I then put the 8 month old down for a nap (was out in literally 2 minutes) and popped in a movie so the two year old could fall asleep . . . which he did. I was sitting there is the quiet thinking to myself . . . good job.
Well this little scene above was nothing like what the rest of the evening was going to be like. I tricked myself. The rest of the night consisted of cleaning and organizing the messy house, bathing defiant boys, tricking the two year old into going to bed, having a stand off with the 7 year old, and then . . . LITERALLY getting 2 hours of sleep because the 8 month old was up ALL night. HOLY CRAP!
Now I am told that it is always different with your own, but man I WAS EXHAUSTED! I WAS SO TIRED! and now I felt like I was the one that had been pummeled! WOW! I have to be honest and say that I started to second guess our decision to have children. (for those readers that don't know, I am 2 1/2 months preggers) and realized how amazing their babysitter really was. She had been doing this three nights previous!
Last night I got some GREAT sleep in my own house, in my own bed, with no chillins around. Waking up today a few thoughts . . . 1-I really am super glad that I could help out my brother! 2-I am asking myself how mothers do it! 3-I am excited to be preggers AND after my little experience . . . you could add that I am a little worried to say the least.
I hope and feel like I know it will be different with my own . . . right?